handbag.com
12 Feb '13, 2pm
Nice recommendation from @handbagcom for our Kissalo 'Love In A Box' alongside some tips from @VenaRamphal
If you and your partner are both sex toy virgins but you want to explore, it's hard to know how to broach the subject. Here romance, intimacy and relationship coach, Vena Ramphal explains how to handle this delicate conversation... 1. The language you use is important. Say that you think sex toys would be fun and flirty for both of you. Don't say that you think your sex life is a bit dull and needs spicing up. Make it clear you're not suggesting sex toys because he is lacking 'the magic' and suggest options that work for him too, like this nifty little number . 2. Use humour. But not dirty humour. Make light of your interest in sex toys. This makes it a safe, non-threatening conversation. 3. Suggest that you both look online at some toys and choose together what you want to buy. 4. Emphasise that this is about shared pleasure, not your pleasure. 5. Do not mention 'that thi...
Full article:
http://www.handbag.com/life/bedside-manner/a458256/how-to...